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Friday, 29 April 2011

How To Build Self Confident






1. Think Positive


To think positively means to replace negative thoughts with positive ones. How I can change my thoughts and by doing so make great things happened. Positive thinking goes hand-in-hand with killing the negative thoughts. You have to learn to be aware of your inner feelings, the thoughts you have about yourself and what you're doing. If you have been given a difficult task and you're unable to do it, you often say to yourself, "it is difficult, I cannot do it." Try to stop yourself from thinking on this pattern. With this little change attitude, you will be able to run marathon towards success within no time.



2. Act Positive


More than just thinking positive, it is important to put it into action as well. Action. Actually, is the key to developing self confidence. The more positive you are about life, the more positive your self-image will be and yourself confidence will grow with it. Talk to people in a positive way, put energy into your action. After doing so, you will soon start to notice a difference.



3. Self Grooming


Self grooming seems like an ordinary suggestions, however it is amazing how much of a difference self grooming can make in your feeling of self confidence and for your self-image. You can easily turn your mood around completely with this one little change in attitude. Dressing up appropriately make you feel good about yourself. You feel successful, presentable and ready to tackle the world.



4. Set Goals and Achieves Them


Set small goals along your professional career and try your best to achieve them. People often make the mistake by setting higher goals and when they fail, they get discouraged. Plan for much achievable goals so that when you reach them, you feel satisfied and accomplish. A number of small accomplishments when taken into account collectively take shape of higher achievements. If you continue this practice, you will be able to set even higher goals and will achieve those too, adding a lot to your confidence.



5. Know Yourself


When you are trying to overcome a negative self-image and replace it with self confident, the important thing is to learn about yourself. Get to know yourself well and start listening to your thoughts. Think about the good things about yourself, the things you are good at, the things you like. Start thinking about your limitation and analyzed if they are real limitations or just artificial. Know yourself deeply and you will eventually come out with even greater self confidence and self esteem.



6. Be Kind and Helpful



Being kind and helpful for others is a tremendous way to improve your self-image, which will ultimately lead you into improving the confidence in yourself. Also, patience and gratefulness are important traits and if developed in your personality, can bring major changes in your sense of confidence. Volunteering too does wonders for boosting your self confidence. You can always find some of the best times you have ever spent and an amazing side benefit is that you will feel better about yourself, instantly.



7. Amplify Your Competence


Your confidence can boost up significantly once you believe that by becoming more competent and how do you do that? By studying and practicing. Just do small bits at a time. If you want to be a more competent writer, for example, don’t try to tackle the entire profession of writing all at once. Just begin to write more. Indulge yourself in journals, blogs, short stories or some freelance writing. The more you write, the better you’ll get at it. Set aside 30 minutes a day to write and practice will increase your competence.



8. Be Prepared


It is hard to be confident in yourself if you are not prepared for the job circumstances in advance. Try to brush up your skills of being well prepared for assignments and tasks at office. Also, keep your skills fresh and up to date and try to learn the new advancements in your professional field. Take your professional life as an exam and keep yourself prepared for it.



9. Let Your Knowledge Empower You


Empowering yourself, through knowledge and awareness is one of the best strategies for building self confidence. Although you can do that in many ways like by building competence and getting prepared however one of the most certain ways, to empower yourself is through gaining knowledge about your profession. By becoming more knowledgeable, you’ll be more confident.














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4 comments:

muslimfrombanten said...

great words ^^

Mel Az-Zahra said...

Thanks (^___^)

tqaroslan said...

sy konfiden bile tak pakai spek je..

kalau tiap2 hari sy blh think positif mcm yg disebutkan dlm entri ni...wah...kan bagus.. =)

Mel Az-Zahra said...

Insya_Allah you can do it...the most important..mesti percaya pd diri sendiri... =)

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